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Marcel Proust

1871 – 1922 CE

Apostle of Ordinary Mind

Apostle of ordinary mind, the “Proustian moment,” and one of the world’s greatest novelists; Proust never worked a job, suffered ill health his entire life, lived with his parents, and spent his last years in bed sleeping all day and writing all night. W. Somerset Maugham called his 3200-page novel, In Search of Lost Time the "greatest fiction to date” and - a huge influence on modern writers - it’s Michael Chabon’s favorite book, in lists of top 10 greatest books of all time, and called "the most respected novel of the twentieth century." Abandoning dramatic action and complicated plot, his novels evoke the sacred in the commonplace, wonder and magic of ordinary experience, and propose art in everyday life as the true meaning of life deeper than all fame, fortune, pleasure, power, or even love.

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In Search of Lost Time

Unlisted Sources

A l'ombre des jeunes filles en fleurs

Albertine disparue

La Prisonniére

Le Temps retrouvé

Letter to an editor

Letter to his friend André Gide

Maxims of Marcel Proust

The Maxims of Marcel Proust

Quotes by Marcel Proust (94 quotes)

“An hour is not just an hour, it is a vase full of perfume, sounds, projects, and moods.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Carpe diem Time

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“The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Travel

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“What we call reality is a certain rapport between our sensations and the memories that encircle us at the same moment.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Reality

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“Always try to keep a patch of sky above your life.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Chapters: 73. Heaven’s Net

Themes: Openness

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“Let us leave pretty women to men with no imagination.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Chapters: 12. This Over That

Themes: Imagination

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“Happiness is beneficial for the body, but it is grief that develops the powers of the mind.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Chapters: 18. The Sick Society

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“My destination is no longer a place, rather a new way of seeing.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Chapters: 40. Returning

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“Only through art can we emerge from ourselves and know what another person sees... Thanks to art, instead of seeing a single world—our own—we see it multiply until we have before us as many worlds as there are original artists.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Art

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“It is always during a passing state of mind that we make lasting resolutions.”

from In Search of Lost Time

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“A fashionable milieu is one in which everybody's opinion is made up of the opinion of all the others. Has everybody a different opinion? Then it is a literary milieu.”

from In Search of Lost Time

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“The time at our disposal each day is elastic; the passions we feel dilate it, those that inspire us shrink it, and habit fills it.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Inspiration Time

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“Time, which changes people, does not alter the image we have retained of them.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Delusion Change

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“Time, which changes people, does not alter the image we have retained of them.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Confusion Time

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“Medicine—being a compendium of the successive and contradictory mistakes of medical practitioners—when we summon the wisest of them to our aid, the chances are that we may be relying on a scientific truth the error of which will be recognized n a few years' time.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Medicine

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“It has been said that the higher praise of God consists in the denial of Him by the atheist, who finds creation s perfect that he can dispense with a creator.”

Themes: God

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“In normal life, negligence deadens desire. Our laziness hides and incessantly delays projects, travels, love affairs, studies: our life. But life suddenly seems wonderful if we are threaten with death. We shouldn’t need a cataclysm to love life today. It should be enough to just realize that we are human and therefore death may come this evening.”

Themes: Appreciation

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“We don't receive wisdom; we must discover it for ourselves after a journey that no one can take for us or spare us.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Travel Wisdom

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“In my most desperate moments, I have never conceived of anything more horrible than a law office.”

Themes: Law and Order

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“When we discover the true lives of other people, the real world beneath the world of appearance, we get as many surprises as on visiting a house of plain exterior which inside is full of hidden treasures, torture-chambers, or skeletons”

from In Search of Lost Time

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“Reading is on the threshold of the spiritual life—only an incitement—it can introduce us to it: it does not constitute it”

from In Search of Lost Time

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“Love is a striking example of how little reality means to us.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Love

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“We cannot be taught wisdom, we have to discover it for ourselves by a journey which no one can undertake fir us, an effort which no one can spare us.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Wisdom

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“To believe in medicine would be the height of folly, if not to believe in it were not a greater folly still.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Health Paradox

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“I adore certain symbols as much as you do. But it would be absurd to sacrifice to the symbol the reality which it symbolizes.”

from In Search of Lost Time

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“There is no such thing as a beautiful prison.”

from In Search of Lost Time

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“Amorous curiosity is like the curiosity aroused in us by the names of places; perpetually disappointed, it revives and remains for ever insatiable.”

from In Search of Lost Time

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“a makeshift lie is quickly forgotten... They pain us coming from a person whom we love, and thereby enable us to penetrate a little deeper in our knowledge of human nature instead of being content to play around on its surface”

from In Search of Lost Time

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“The only way to attack language is to attack it... there are no certainties, even grammatical ones... Every writer is obliged to create his own language, as every violinist is obliged to create his own 'tone'... they begin to write well only on condition that they're original, that they create their own language... only that which bears the imprint of our choice, our taste, our uncertainty, our desire and our weakness can be beautiful.”

from In Search of Lost Time

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“Infirmity alone makes us take notice and learn, and enables us to analyze processes which we would otherwise know nothing about.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Problems

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“Sometimes in the afternoon sky a white moon would creep up like a little cloud, furtive, without display, suggesting an actress who does not have to 'come on' for awhile, and so goes 'in front' in her ordinary clothes to watch the rest of the company but keeps in the background, not wishing to attract attention to herself.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Anonymity Moon

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“Friendship is in the end no more than a lie which seeks to make us believe that we are not irremediably alone”

from In Search of Lost Time

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“Friendship is in the end no more than a lie which seeks to make us believe that we are not irremediably alone”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Friendship

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“A book is the product of another self to the one we display in our habits, in society, in our vices.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Books

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“Voluntary memory—the memory of the intellect and the eyes—[gives] us only imprecise facsimiles of the past which no more resemble it than pictures of bad painters resemble the spring... So we don't believe that life is beautiful because we don't recall it”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Forget Memory

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“the great painters initiate us into a knowledge and love of the external world… our eyes are opened… their charm and wisdom coats our most modest moments by initiating us into the life of still life.”

from Letter to an editor

Themes: Sacred World

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“True beauty is indeed the one thing incapable of answering the expectations of an over-romantic imagination... What disappointments has it not caused since it first appeared to the mass of mankind!”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Beauty

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“I believe—contrary to the fashion among our contemporaries—that one can have a very lofty idea of literature, and at the same time have a good-natured laugh at it.”

from Letter to his friend André Gide

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“The names of railway stations in a time table could offer far better value than fine volumes of philosophy. Linked to an order of reveries, one could imagine themselves stepping from the train on an autumn evening, when the trees are already bare and smelling strongly in the keen air”

Themes: Appreciation

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“The one thing more difficult that following a regimen is not imposing it on others.”

Themes: Fanaticism

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“The great quality of true art is that it rediscovers, grasps and reveals to us that reality far from which we live, from which we get farther and farther away as the conventional knowledge we substitute for it becomes thicker an more impermeable”

from The Maxims of Marcel Proust

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“The great quality of true art is that it rediscovers, grasps and reveals to us that reality far from which we live—from which we get farther and farther away as the conventional knowledge we substitute for it becomes thicker and more impermeable”

from The Maxims of Marcel Proust

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“The mind can be influenced like a plant, like a cell, like a chemical element; one has only to introduce it into a series of new circumstances or a new setting.

from In Search of Lost Time

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“The only paradise is paradise lost”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Shambhala

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“We know that our dreams are not realizable; but it is useful to have dreams in order to see them come to naught and to learn by their failure.”

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“We imagine the future as a reflection of the present projected into empty space, whereas it is the result—often the imminent result—of causes which for the most part escape us.”

from La Prisonniére

Themes: Karma

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“Unconsecrated unions produce relationships that are just as numerous and as complicated as those created by a marriage, but more solid.”

from La Prisonniére

Themes: Marriage

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“...the memory of a particular image is but regret for a particular moment.”

Themes: Memory

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“For every malady that doctors cure with medicine, they produce ten in healthy people by inoculating them with that virus which is a thousand time more powerful than any microbe: the idea that one is ill.”

Themes: Health Medicine

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“Our habits cling to us even when they no longer serve any purpose... The constancy of a habit is generally in direct ratio to its absurdity.”

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“To the bad habit of talking about oneself and one's faults must be added the related habit of criticizing the same faults in others. This is only a hidden manner of talking about oneself which combines the pleasure of absolution with that of confession.”

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“Poverty—more generous than wealth—gives women much more than the clothes they cannot buy: that is the desire for those clothes, which leads to the only true, detailed, and profound knowledge of them.”

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“Everything great in the world comes from neurotics. They alone have founded our religions and composed our masterpieces. Never will the world know all it owes to them nor all that they have suffered to enrich us.”

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“Our virtues are not something free and independent that we can always call upon... if a new situation arises, it takes us off our guard and we haven't the slightest idea that those same virtues could be called into play.”

from Albertine disparue

Themes: Virtue

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“adolescence is the only period during which we really leaned anything... later we see things from a more practical point of view in conformity with the rest of society”

from A l'ombre des jeunes filles en fleurs

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“When we have gone beyond a certain age, the soul of the child we were and the souls of the dead from whom we descend come and shower upon us their riches and their evil spells.”

from La Prisonniére

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“Old age is like death in that some face it with indifference, not because they have more courage than others, but because they have less imagination.”

from Le Temps retrouvé

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“Simplicity delights only when others know that you can well afford not to be simple.”

from The Maxims of Marcel Proust

Themes: Simplicity

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“We soon forget whatever we have not thought about deeply, whatever is inspired by imitation or the passions of the moment which change and thereby modify our memory... society people remember almost nothing.”

from The Maxims of Marcel Proust

Themes: Forget

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“The practice of solitude engenders the love of solitude. Like anything important that we at first fear because we know it to be incompatible with lesser things we're attached to—pleasures which cease to please as soon as we have known solitude.”

from The Maxims of Marcel Proust

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“Snobbery is a disease of the soul which, though serious, is localized and hence does not destroy in utterly.”

from The Maxims of Marcel Proust

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“We say indeed that the hour of death is uncertain, but when we say this we imagine that hour in a vague and distant future. It never occurs to us that it has any relation the day already begun.”

from The Maxims of Marcel Proust

Themes: Death and Dying

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“In its ealy stage, love is shaped by desire; later on it is kept alive only by anxiety... It is born and it thrives only if something remains to be won. We love only what we do not completely possess.”

from The Maxims of Marcel Proust

Themes: Greed

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“It is not the joy of the present moment but the wise reflections of the past that help us to preserve the future.”

from The Maxims of Marcel Proust

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“Just as the spectrum exteriorizes for us the composition of light, so the color of a Monet makes it possible for us to know the qualitative essence of another person's sensations.”

from The Maxims of Marcel Proust

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“If prostitutes themselves attract us so little, it is not because they are less beautiful than other women, but because they are ready and waiting; because they already offer us precisely what we seek to attain; it is because they are not conquests.”

Themes: Prostitution

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“Habit is a second nature which prevents us from knowing the first, of which it has neither the cruelties nor the enchantments.”

from In Search of Lost Time

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“Life holds hardly any interest except on the days when the dust of reality is mingled with magic sand—when some ordinary incident of life becomes a springboard for the imagination.”

from Maxims of Marcel Proust

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“To each one of us, clear ideas are those which have the same degree of confusion as our own.”

from Maxims of Marcel Proust

Themes: Confusion

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“Moral uncertainty is an even greater cause of inexact visual perception than is defective eyesight.”

from Maxims of Marcel Proust

Themes: Illusion

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“After a certain age, our memories are so intermingled that the thing we are thinking of or the book we are reading hardly matters at all... quite as valuable discoveries as we could make in Pascal's Thoughts may be inspired by a soap advertisement.”

from Maxims of Marcel Proust

Themes: Simplicity

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“We find a little of everything in our memory; it is a kind of pharmacy or chemical laboratory in which chance guides our hand now to a calming drug and now to a dangerous poison.”

from Maxims of Marcel Proust

Themes: Fate / Destiny

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“Our mind lets the chain of the past slip away clinging only to the extreme end, which is often made of a very different metal from that of the links lost in the night of time.”

from Maxims of Marcel Proust

Themes: Mind

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“We dream much of paradise or rather of many paradises in succession, but long before we die they are all lost paradises in which we would feel lost.”

from Maxims of Marcel Proust

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“behold the world (which was not created once and for all, but rather as often as an original artist has appeared)... It will last until the next geological catastrophe loosed by a new original painter or original writer.”

from Maxims of Marcel Proust

Themes: Evolution

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“The charms of the passing woman are usually in direct ratio to the speed of her passing.”

from Maxims of Marcel Proust

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“Love's greatest deceit is that—replacing the real woman—it makes us toy with a doll that lives in our brain, the only woman whom we have always at hand and can ever really possess. And gradually, to our own sorrow, we force the real woman to resemble this facetious creation.”

from Maxims of Marcel Proust

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“Were it not for habit, life would seem delightful—even to those constantly threatened with death, that is all men.”

from Maxims of Marcel Proust

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“What we call our love or our jealousy is not a single continuous passion. It is composed of an infinite number of successive loves, of different ephemeral jealousies, which, following each other without interruption, give the impression of continuity, the illusion of unity.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Continuity

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“Genius consists in the power to reflect and not in the intrinsic value of the thing reflected, from the faculty of transforming or transposing. Those who produce works of genius are those who—ceasing to live for themselves—have the ability to make a mirror of their personality.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Golden Rule

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“Each generation of critics does nothing but take the opposite of the truths accepted by their predecessors.”

from In Search of Lost Time

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“It is a lie that truth always belongs to the majority! When a truth is hoary with years it is a long way to becoming a lie.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Chapters: 1. The Unnamed

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“Pleasures are like photographs. In their presence, we only see the negative which we develop later at home in our inner darkroom, whose door is always closed to us as long as we are around others.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Pleasure

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“The delightful mirage that love projects entices men into 'mistakes' like marrying their cook or their best friend's mistress. These often become the only poetic act they accomplish in their entire lives.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Mistakes

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“We do not regret having become a different person after the passing of years because the personality that has been eclipsed is no longer present to deplore the other personality”

from In Search of Lost Time

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“Everything that seems to us imperishable tends toward its destruction.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Impermanence

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“Love—and consequently fear—of the crowd is among the most powerful motives in all men: an inordinate love of the crowd which so completely dominates every other feeling that—unable to obtain the admiration of the janitor, of the passers-by, and of the loitering taxi driver—a man prefers never to be seen”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Fear

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“The thought that another person partakes of a mysterious life which his or her love would open up to us is all we ned to make us fall in love.”

from In Search of Lost Time

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“Because they imply the sacrifice of a more or less flattering situation to purely intimate joys, shockingly irregular marriages are usually the most estimable.”

from Maxims of Marcel Proust

Themes: Marriage

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“There is nothing like desire for preventing the things one says from having any resemblance to the things in one's mind.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Desire

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“Jealousy is often but a restless desire for tyranny applying itself to love.”

from In Search of Lost Time

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“We really only know what is new, what suddenly, by a change in tone, strikes us with a new sensation, what habit has not yet supplanted by its pale facsimiles.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Mistakes

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“Reason opens our eyes; an error that we have dispelled gives us an additional sense.”

from In Search of Lost Time

Themes: Reason

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“The only true voyage would be not to travel through a hundred different lands with the same pair of eyes, but to see the same land through a hundred different pairs of eyes.”

Themes: Wu Wei

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“Griefs, at the moment when they change into ideas, lose some of their power to injure our heart.”

Themes: Transmutation

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Quotes about Marcel Proust (5 quotes)

“If what Proust says is true, that happiness is the absence of fever, then I will never know happiness. For I am possessed by a fever for knowledge, experience, and creation.”

Anais Nin 1903 – 1977 CE

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Maxims of Marcel Proust (1948)

"The best of Marcel Proust" according to translator Justin O'Brien who collected and translated short and provocative quotes from 17 volumes of Proust's writings.

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“a man who had spent the last 14 years lying in a narrow bed under a pile of thinly woven woolen blankets writing an unusually long novel without an adequate bedside lamp…. his friends were almost unanimous in suggesting that Proust had been a paragon of companionship, an embodiment of friendship’s every virtue.”

Alain de Botton 1969 CE –
Philosophic link between ancient wisdom and modern challenge
from How Proust Can Change Your Life, 1997

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“Oh if I could write like that!”

Virginia Woolf 1882 – 1941 CE

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“Like Proust, be an old teahead of time.”

Jack Kerouac 1922 – 1969 CE

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