Most of us bemoan our fates, complain about our problems, and feel bad about the difficulties we mush face. Some of us though appreciate difficulties as creative challenges, see problems as opportunities, and are too busy working on solutions to feel bad about anything. Without challenge, there isn't an impetus for change. Without change, life becomes insipid and meaningless. Without meaning, what is the value of life? So often, our desires and attachments are to what's not good for us—like only seeking pleasure and comfort, running from difficulties, and feeling a victim of problems. We avoid what does benefit, what's truly good for us—obstacles that make us think, challenges that test and improve our skills, pain and suffering that hurts but opens our hearts to more compassion and appreciation.
“Badness can be got easily and in shoals; the road to her is smooth, and she lives very near us. But between us and Goodness the gods have placed the sweat of our brows”
“It is impossible to withdraw from the world and associate with birds and beasts that have no affinity with us. The disorder that prevails is what requires my efforts. If right principles ruled through the kingdom, there would be no necessity for me to change its state.”
“Opposites cooperate. The most beautiful harmonies come from opposition.”
“To face calamity with an unclouded mind and quickly respond—in both a government and an individual—represents real strength.”
“No society can prosper if it aims at making things easier. Instead, it should aim at making people stronger.”
“The difficulty in speaking to a person is not that of knowing what to say but in knowing the mind of the person spoken to and fitting the best approach to it.”
“If you can solve your problem, then what is the need of worrying? If you cannot solve it, then what is the use of worrying?”
“Moral concepts practiced without understanding can be the greatest obstacles to […] uncompromising compassion.”
“If you do not take the path of a miserable mind, how can you encounter the wealth of mental joy?
If you cross over the treacherous crag, you'll arrive at the flat plain.”
“We are creatures that love to blame the external, not realizing that the problem is usually internal.”
“Read, persevere, sit up nights, inquire, exert the utmost power of your mind. If one way does not lead to understanding, take another; if obstacles arise, then still another; persist until you find clarity in what at first looked dark.”
“some make much of what matters little and little of much… Many never lose their common sense, because they have none to lose… The wise person thinks over everything, but with a difference, most profoundly where there is some profound difficulty.”
“All Discord, Harmony, not understood;
All partial Evil, universal Good:
And, spite of Pride, in erring Reason’s spite,
One truth is clear, 'Whatever IS, is RIGHT.'”
“A few years' experience will convince us that those things which at the time they happened we regarded as our greatest misfortunes have proved our greatest blessings.”
“Misfortune is a stepping stone for genius, the baptismal font of Christians, treasure for the skillful man, an abyss for the feeble.”
“Men outlive their love, but they don't outlive the consequences of their recklessness.”
“Do not be afraid of your difficulties. Do not wish you could be in other circumstances than you are. For when you have made the best of an adversity, it becomes the stepping stone to a splendid opportunity”
“In a day when you don't come across any problems - you can be sure that you are traveling in a wrong path”
“I would rather have this life of combat than moral calm and mournful stupor. God give me struggle, enemies, howling crowds, all the combat of which I am capable.”
“Peace and comfort and happiness are terribly expensive, Horace—and prices have been going up fast!”
“Dogmatism is the greatest of mental obstacles to human happiness.”
“Dogmatism is an enemy to peace and an insuperable barrier to democracy... the greatest of the mental obstacles to human happiness.”
“A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.”
“The greater the tension, the greater is the potential. Great energy springs from a correspondingly great tension of opposites.”
“The greatest and most important problems of life are all fundamentally insoluble… They can never be solved, but only outgrown.”
“The young intellectuals are all chanting, 'Revolution, Revolution', but I say the revolution will have to start in our homes, by achieving equal rights for women.”
“Every means is an obstacle. Only where all means have disintegrated encounters occur.”
“The greatest obstacle to enlightenment is getting past your delusion that you are not already enlightened.”
“To overcome every obstacle to unite our beings without loss of individual personality, there is a single force which nothing can replace and nothing destroy, a force which urges us forward and draws us upwards…”
“There can be no rebirth without a dark night of the soul, a total annihilation of all that you believed in and thought that you were.”
“Trouble? Life is trouble. Only death is not. To be alive is to undo your belt and look for trouble.”
“Man achieves civilization, not as a result of superior biological endowment or geographical environment, but as a response to a challenge in a situation of special difficulty which rouses him to make a hitherto unprecedented effort.”
“Every day we slaughter our finest impulses… the tender shoots we stifle because we lack the faith to believe in our own powers, our own criterion of truth and beauty... That is why we get a heartache.”
“In order to change an existing paradigm you do not struggle to try and change the problematic model. You create a new model and make the old one obsolete.”
“religious, political, personal… symbols, ideas, beliefs… are the causes of our problems for they divide man from man in every relationship.”
“the crucial difficulty with which we are confronted lies in the fact that the development of man’s intellectual capacities has far outstripped the development of his emotions. Man’s brain lives in the 20th century; the heart of most men lives still in the Stone Age.”
“The demon that you swallow gives you its power. The greater life’s pain, the greater life’s reply… the more challenging or threatening the situation, the greater the stature of the person who can achieve it.”
“A relationship with no combat in it is dull, and a relationship with too much combat in it is toxic. What is desirable is a relationship with a certain optimum of conflict.”
“The point is not that the problem has no solution, but that it is so meaningless that it need not be felt as a problem.”
“Tao is not pursuing any purpose, and therefore is not meeting any difficulty.”
“ego is the role, the 'act' [and when] it is understood that the ego is a social fiction, life ceases to be problematic”
“When you do things, then obstacles will come and you can go through them. Obstacles are a sign of success.”
“It may be that when we no longer know what to do, we have come to our real work and when we no longer know which way to go, we have begun our real journey. The mind that is not baffled is not employed.”
“That big-deal quality of our perception is known as a veil that prevents us from relating with reality properly… it makes us more numb.”
“Again and again it happens… the methods become obstacles… The problem seems to be the attitude that the pain should go and then we will be happy. This is our mistaken belief. The pain never goes, and we will never be happy.”
“As soon as your born they make you feel small, by giving you no time instead of it all… A working class hero is something to be.”
“everybody is living a totally wasted life… a sham, living in a dream … we are asleep never really using our senses”
“As stubborn and permanent-seeming as our obstacles may be, they are actually unstable, compounded phenomena... they can be completely removed.”
“Only when plunged into grief do we have the Proustian incentive to confront difficult truths, as we wail under the bedclothes, like branches in the autumn wind.”
“How do we hold such obvious misperceptions in place? There is only one obstacle to knowing my own essential emptiness—the mind cloud that got stuck in the fixity of embarrassment, or in attachment to roles, and the inability or unwillingness to let these clouds pass.”
“When Kansas and Colorado fall out over the waters in the Arkansas River, they don't go to war over it; they go to the Supreme Court of the United States, and the matter is settled in a just and honorable way. There is not a difficulty in the whole world that cannot be settled in exactly the same way in a world court.”
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